He didn’t catch me when I fell.
by buxllove
I am tired. So tired.
Tears keep coming to my eyes and keep holding them back. I am emotional..
I had a session with daddy, for me it was intense, my body was made to endure things and sensations it never before had…
The floggings hurt so much! I felt every lash to my core, it made me tremble, especially those to my shoulders and back.
I have massive bruise on my thigh… I was beaten and now I’m beat.
I am definitely experiencing a subdrop.
My emotions are out of whack and no matter how much I talk to myself, I can’t help but feel so sad.
I just want to cradle in the arms of my man… He would comfort me, daddy didn’t, daddy allowed me to lay at rest for a moment and then instructed I take a shower… I needed more than that. I needed him to hold me whilst I composed myself. I needed him to help ease me out, help me down from the high.. Instead I’ve hit the ground with a massive thud.
I’m sitting on this train and tears are streaming and I can’t hold them back.. I’ve been holding them back all morning.
I now understand why everyone goes on about the importance of “aftercare”.
Subdrop can be lonely, sad and painful. Talk to your daddy about it. The only way to get the right aftercare is to express what you need…
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You’re right… Honestly, I felt silly for feeling so emotional and given he didn’t see the need to check on me I felt I would keep it to myself.
Being a daddy I would have hoped that he was accustom to providing and offering aftercare.
As his little girl i’m needy enough as it is… As my daddy he should always want to make sure i’m ok no??
I didn’t want to make a big scene so I went home as soon as I could.
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Don’t feel silly. Sometimes something just hits you harder (no pun intended…) than you expected it to. Your daddy is not a mindreader, so I believe communication is the only way. And explaining your needs doesn’t necessarily make you needy…
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That sounds so intense – and sorry for saying but almost like abuse, I know, I have been there and know the importance of care….
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I dont mind you saying at all… I appreciate all comments as I am new to this world, your feedback helps me figure out what is “right and wrong”.
I suppose i will have to speak to him about it at one point.
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I am glad that you understood me. It is very important for one sub to find out where the real match is. But we are often disappointed – I have been with men who have abused me and made me think it was the lifestyle. So I shared my thought. Hope you are feeling better.
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Thank you… I am, still a little drained but not as emotional…
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